Potty training is a significant milestone in your toddler’s development, but knowing when to start can feel tricky. Every child is unique, and there’s no exact age for potty training. However, there are several key signs that your toddler may be ready to ditch the diapers and transition to using the potty.
Dry Diapers for Longer Periods
If your toddler is staying dry for two or more hours during the day or waking up from naps with a dry diaper, it’s a sign their bladder is developing the capacity to hold urine.
Awareness of Bathroom Needs
When toddlers start showing awareness of when they need to go—or have already gone—it’s a strong indicator they may be ready for potty training. They might:
• Hide or go to a private space to poop.
• Tell you they’re wet or dirty.
• Pull at their diaper when it’s soiled.
3. Ability to Follow Simple Instructions
Potty training involves a few steps, like pulling down pants, sitting on the potty, and washing hands. If your toddler can follow simple directions, they might be ready to tackle this process.
Interest in the Bathroom
Many toddlers naturally become curious about the toilet. They might follow you into the bathroom, ask questions about what you’re doing, or even try to imitate you. This curiosity can be the perfect gateway to introducing potty training.
Uncomfortable in Dirty Diapers
A toddler who dislikes the feeling of a wet or soiled diaper—and wants it changed immediately—may be ready to learn how to stay clean and dry by using the potty.
Ability to Communicate Needs
Your child doesn’t need a full vocabulary but should be able to express their needs, whether through words like “potty” or “pee,” gestures, or other signals. Communication is essential to make potty training smoother.
Motor Skills to Use the Potty
Potty training requires certain physical skills, such as pulling pants up and down and sitting down on (and getting up from) the potty. If your toddler can manage these actions with little assistance, it’s a good sign.
Consistent Bowel Movements
If your child’s bowel movements happen at predictable times of day, it will be easier to start potty training and avoid accidents.
Shows a Desire for Independence
Potty training is often easier when a toddler enjoys doing things by themselves, like putting on their own shoes or picking their clothes. This sense of independence can make them more motivated to learn.
Positive Reinforcement Is Effective
If your child responds well to praise or rewards in other areas, this can make potty training easier. A motivated toddler who enjoys earning stickers, claps, or small treats will often take to potty training more quickly.
When Not to Start Potty Training
While your toddler may show readiness signs, certain circumstances might mean it’s better to wait. Avoid beginning potty training during:
• A big life transition, like moving or the arrival of a new sibling.
• Periods of illness or discomfort.
• Times when you or your child are feeling especially stressed.
Tips for Getting Started
• Choose the Right Equipment: A potty chair or a small seat that fits on your toilet works best for toddlers.
• Keep It Positive: Celebrate progress and avoid punishment for accidents.
• Stay Patient: Potty training takes time, and setbacks are normal.
Recognizing readiness is the first step toward successful potty training. Once your toddler shows these signs, start slow, make it fun, and be consistent.